More black women dating white guys
He might make you feel special for a few seconds, but the key point here is that he will replace you in a heartbeat if a lighter girl comes around.
You are an exception because in his mind, black women are unattractive.
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I used to come across this type more in my high school years, but these little ones don’t see age as a limit.
Type two will compliment your skin tone or your hair after saying something along the lines of, "I’m usually not into black girls." He also appropriated the famous, ‘‘You’re pretty, for a black girl’’ remark.
It is flattering to be complimented on the skin you have learned to love through years and years of self-hate, believe me, I’ve been there.All you want is to run your hand through his straight hair and say thank you as you look into his sparkly light eyes but actually, if I were you... You know about those “white girls who only date black guys,” you see the cornrows, you see the hoops, YOU KNOW. The main issue is that they do not usually respect other people of colour.The final red flag that should be enough to make you jump off, is that he probably uses you as a pass to get out of situations where people put him on blast for his racist comments. Coming from a predominantly white area with a past of internalized racism, your quest for the approval of the white man is just something you need to go through. Show less If you’re a brown girl who’s into guys, you probably know what I’ll be talking about here.
But listen when I say that this is no prince charming.