Not interested in dating right now
Her friends will have been witness to every detail of your fling so far. Straight women wear push-up bras and full makeup for months, but us lady-loving ladies tend to shrug it off after a few weeks. But when it comes to timekeeping or courtesy with you and those same rules don’t seem to apply, she’s an assclown. Now she wants to hit the town or hang out with groups of friends. It’s usually the one she’s actively NOT looking at.) 11. Don’t even do yourself the indignity of trying to see it.
The joy of dating a woman is that (contrary to popular belief) we tend to chill out on the dressing up a lot quicker than hetero couples. She has the kindest of regards and highest of standards for her friends, neighbors, and colleagues. Screen hiding and taking her phone to the bathroom with her is a massive red flag.
When you think about the times you’ve spent with this man, you think, when you have a great time? In order for a man to commit, he needs to get something from you that he can’t get anywhere else. If you want something more, make sure you’re giving something more and not communicating that sex is the most important thing to you. It might be that they’re not confident and feel like they need to remind you of how amazing it is to have sex with them (they hope).
Having no strings attached means you get your physical needs met without having any of the work (or risk) of a relationship. This is a proven sign she’s thinking something she can’t say out loud. Simple rule: if she’s not treating you like a priority, then you aren’t one. Aside from the obvious turning away or not holding hands, notice if she’s covering her mouth with her hands more than usual. Where you’d always have time for each other or make plans ahead of time, she starts being really vague, sometimes even waiting to the last minute to make plans. But by then you’ll be far too busy dating someone who actually wants to spend time with you to give a shit about her. But chances are, if she’s showing three or more of these signs, then she’s probably getting ready to call it quits... So if she’s suddenly cold on texting, she’s probably not that into you. So if she was an oversharer before and suddenly goes off the grid, then maybe she doesn’t want you to know where she is.
To put it simply, if you have any doubts, then you’re probably right.